She doesn't want to hear that and she's not ready to hear that.
When she responded "not happening" to you, she is seeing you bring that up as a way to make her change her mind. I know you are just stating a fact, but she is seeing it as "please come back to me so we can be a family again." She probably went home and told OM that you're still begging her to come back.
That's why we follow the rules. They are to protect YOU. We GAL for us. We live for ourselves and our kids. We let our WWs dig their own holes; they have to come to their own conclusions and we can't influence that with our words.
I'm glad that you're happier then you've been. You shouldn't tell her that you are, you should show her that you are.
And don't invite her back; you don't need her. She needs to earn her way back now, if she decides that's what she wants.
If she thinks she can come back whenever she feels like it, then there's no incentive to come back.
