My H talked about moving out. If he had, I can't see myself agreeing to assemble furniture for him. (That's our equivalent thing. I do all the assembling.)
Be a friend, yes. Friends don't hook up utilities. They listen to you vent about what a pain it is to hook up utilities.
Caveat--I'm new and still not sure my relationship is going to survive.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
