"My W made a comment to me several weeks ago that she has never felt that I was that in to her. I've felt that she has been resistant to my shows of affection and they slowly dwindled away"
Hi Tjcran
When I read this I thought - Love languages. Have you read the five love languages or His Needs Her Needs?
May be helpful, given what you posted above...
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus