W keeps testing to see if she can get me out of the MBR. Not as demanding this time but she asked which bedroom I wanted. I told her I'm staying in my bedroom, and she has also started to refer to it as mine which is interesting. We had a good talk last night, she came to me. We both have each other room and time to make out points, although I had to remind her once to let me finish. It's still sent a lot better than any other R talk we've had recently. She still wants to separate, but she seems to be softening somehow. I did pretty well validating and made it clear that I respect her opinions even when I don't agree. I'm doing another 180 with marijuana use, since this is a huge trigger for her. The talk ended well so we will see how today goes. Typically after we have a good time together or a good talk, for the next day or two she likes to test my patience. I am getting much better at preparing for this.
