Your wife's behavior is despicable, but you can't control her, only yourself.
Asking her to do things doesn't seem to be doing you any good. It adds conflict, and there is no way to make her do what you want anyway.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16
