One of the things my coach and I discussed was her 'testing' me to see if I would revert to previous behaviors.

She now seems to have realized she can't rock my boat with what she is doing, so she is now trying the 'ignore' technique.

I sent her a text last night about getting the kids for supper this week, and then this morning about if I am supposed to make a dentist appointment for S15. No response to either.

Doesn't bother me though, she can test all she wants. I am going to keep being a great dad and keep working on myself!


Me: 38 y/o
W: 38 y/o
Together: 10 yrs
Married: 7 yrs
S1, D3, S15(hers previous, I adopted May'15)
WBD: Sep '15
W's EA confirmed Oct'15
W Filed Dec '15
Personal awakening Mar'16