@dream - I don't think that it will help the relationship, but i also do not believe that it will take me back a step. She had a choice to roll over last night and take out her pink buddy, be needy and desperate - instead, she chose to go to sleep. That tells me that she is not being "as" selfish as last week.
She is almost certainly no longer in contact with OM. I cannot be 100% sure. But i'm still not initiating any contact whilst at work. Making sure that i 180 whenever she could look for a reaction.
As for her feedback to my convo to her above, she says that "my actions spoke very large yesterday, for me to not even wish her". She is starting to think that I don't care about her anymore. I will continue to GAL, going to start Al-anon, and hitting my daily goals. She said that she's fine with me not replying that I love her, "until i am ready".
@doodler, I am not going to initiate any R talk, I want her to do that. She's still talking about our planned trip to Europe next year, "God willing".
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
