Summary:

Marriage was in slow decline almost from the beginning. Wife asked for separation in mid April. I moved out May 1. She had previous EA 6 years ago. Had another currently. After one week of separation she asks for D. She hasn't worked on anything, doesn't want to, puts blame squarely on me. I have been hard at work improving myself since January 2016.

Two young kids. Married over 10 years.

Link to part 1 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2669236#Post2669236