Ok. Thanks I thought it seemed correct in my responses. I'm not only doing that for her so she feels like she can talk to me more with just me listening, but I need to do it all around for customers as well. It's something that I need to work on and continue to work on Something else I know I need to work on that hit me last night. As we were sitting around the neighbors back patio I was talking about our S in church. How one guy told him he prays really good, which made me smile inside:) But also how when we got out to walk into church my S said, "daddy why does everyone look so beautiful today?" I said, because it's Mother's Day today remember. He said oh yeah and momma is tired she just wanted to sleep Well after I told this story I realized how it could come across as me criticizing wife for not going to church by telling that storer and doing it in front of her. I do that toe of stuff all the time and I don't know why I do it. I've got to stop I alsmot text her this morning apologizing for it, but decided not to
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it