My wife went out with a couple of former co-workers on Friday night, then turns out after that she went to meet the OM at his house. We had a long talk on Saturday, after she told me why she came home so late, and at that point agreed to at least try marriage counseling, which I thought was maybe a bit of progress.
Then last night after hanging out with the kids she told me she was feeling a little closterphobic in the apartment we are temporarily living in and asked if I wanted to get out as well and go for a drive. So we went for a drive, and for the first 15 minutes she barely said a word and looked out her window the whole time. She finally broke down and told me she wanted a divorce, that she's wanted to tell me for a long time, but that she was afraid to say anything.
After having another long talk she indicated she was still willing to meeting with a marriage counselor, but also wants to look at starting the divorce process.
I'm kind of at a loss based on the somewhat conflicting sentiment here, but will continue to take it one day at a time. We still have about 2 months left on the house we started building 6 month ago. We've got a lot of money tied up in that and at this point are still planning on moving in to the house together and trying to make it work as a co-habitation agreement for the short term for financial reasons.
It's going to be a long next couple of months with this, but if anyone has any advice on the co-habitation thing, I would appreciate it.
Thanks!
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 Counselling - yet to be initiated WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016
_____________________ Me:44 W:44 Together 22 Married 21 S 19 D 17, 15, 15. 7 EA/PA suspected 3/30/2016 EA/PA confirmed 4/5/2016 ILYBINILWY 4/5/2016 WW asked for Divorce 5/8/2016 (WW has backtracked)
