I have to go to dr apt, but she just responded to text I sent (see wonka so suggestion above), she says:
Yes, I understand that as have yours. You are not innocent in this situation. However, the more I give in to your requests, the angrier you seem to get &I the more uncomfortable you make things for everyone around the house. The only way we can work on things is if you allow us to.
That being said, I cannot continue to have this go on in the house with S. Things need to change or we need to take a break from each other & try to work out our issues separately. This is S house & he WILL continue living there in peace. I will not be leaving my S so if you can't change your behavior then you will have to stay somewhere else until you can act normal.
Ok, gotta go.. Holding off response for awhile, if I respond at all.
M - 9 1/2 years 5/5/16 - Bomb drop - 3 week EA 10/31/16 - We sold house 01/10/18 - D Finalized