Focus on me and my boys

[Rose888]

I wouldn't respond to the text.

I would also not ask her to do things like this in the future. If you have split up nights, you should be self-sufficient for your time.

It sounds like you have some fundamental disagreements about what needs to happen at night and in the morning. I tend to be a night-before prepper too, so my instinct on how to handle this is probably wrong.