well still no R talk, but intend on saying something along these lines:

I do not want to push you away, I know that mothers day was difficult for you, it was also difficult for me to not to wish the mother of my child. It is your birthday wknd so you need to let me know how you want me involved and I will gladly spend that time with you.

As for intimacy, I understand that you need it and I do want to let you in. What type of intimacy do you want right now?

For now I just want to know how you feel. I will not reply to you right away, but give me some time to think about what you're saying and i'll let you know what I think later this evening.

Thank you for being honest with me.


Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.