What should I be doing? (2)

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A letter of no contact from her to OM is often a good action to see. It has to be clearly stated in the letter that there is no room for any further contact between them. It is up to her to determine how that can be achieved especially due to the firefighting. But no contact needs to be NO contact and then it needs to be transparent.

Take the time you need to decide exactly how you want to proceed. Wait for the gets to advise. You have done great in recent interactions. Almost textbook sandi.

You seem to be in a good place BUT don't assume the rollercoaster is finished. Many a WW have initially come across as wanting to save M only to revert just as quick afterwards. This is why you need to take your time and also why her actions are more important than her words.

Earlier in your thread you got a great breakdown of DBing from wonka. When you stop spinning reread these posts and set goals for yourself based on them. Both of ye need to change for this to work. Start your part now.

Best wishes.