What should I be doing? (2)

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Coconut,

Going to hit you with a 2x4 here. I think you need to check your ego a little bit. The bottom line is in this situation, she is going to disrespect you. Your key is to be strong enough to resist it.

At the same time, she is where she is because you were not supporting her emotionally or physically, so totally ignoring her is probably not the right path either.

I'll share something my coach told me. It is ok to try different things. Remember what works and do that more. Remember what doesn't work, and stop doing it!