Great Job coconut!!!
Good job on the conversation
I will let the more experienced people give you advice at this moment
But I will say whatever you do don't just rush back into R. Remember this happened for a reason. There were issues in the marriage. What were yours?
Work on those. Thank about what you want in the future. Trusting will be tough and understand that it will take time. So don't rush into anything


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it