Just to clarify my last point above - im not talking about demanding sex whenever. But i dont think i can go for months without murdering someone.
You and I clearly live on different planets, so this suggestion might not work for you, but why can't you handle your sexual needs during limbo the same way you will handle them if you get divorced?
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16