14 days of sheer hell - part 4

[DDJ]

well, she has always had a great sex drive. we used to have sex about 4 times a week before baby. now its 2 to 3 times a week. but she has always been the one initiating. i know that that needs to change. its been something that we've discussed over the years and i never changed, and it makes her feel vulnerable.

we always used to say "come we F", and it was never about making love. i know that that needs to change too, from my side before she will possibly change.

i dont want to withhold intimacy if its pushing her away, but i dont want her to cake-eat either. i know that if she's satisfied that she wont look elsewhere but right now i'm not too sure...