5 weeks in since she said she doesnt love me.(2)

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Thank you for the suggestions Champ. I'll try some of them tonight. I need it.

I think i need to start going to bed later and make sure im ready to just sleep. My W usually gets to bed 8.30pm watches a bit of TV in bed then falls asleep.

I think i am starting to drop the rope, atleast i hope so. Over the weekend we acted like a happy family then comes nightfall she turns into an ice queen again. But something happened last night, after sex (i initiated...its been two months dont judge me) i asked her if she wanted to get away from me, shes says she couldnt or wont answer.

I calmly told her if she want to separate then she has to tell her parents and we go down to religious authority to start the process of separating officially but either way she will have to decide. Im dropping the rope (i didnt say that part out loud). Im not expecting us to get back together, i want to but i dont feel it happening.

I do have one question, its about sex. This is going to sound misogynistic but i have needs and if shes wants to stay like this ~ limbo like environment ~ where she wont or cant decide if shes going or not i still expect my needs to be met.