my situation is no way near yours, im only two months in but i want to know now what stops you from filing? After everything and you seem ready to move on plus shes still with OM.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.