Hi. Poschan, I'm sorry to hijack your thread, too, but I had a question I wanted to ask Sandi.

Sandi, you give such great advice to LB husbands. Is there anyone whose threads you might recommend who can provide some similar perspective for a LB wife? A former WAH/WH, perhaps? I could really use some input. Thanks in advance.

Back to you, Poschan. I just caught up on your thread, and I am sorry that the march toward D is going so quickly. You seem to be very clear-headed in the way you are handling yourself. I wish I had some of that clarity.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16