Working on detachment, my anxiety, and the joys of limbo

[Painter]

Add in my grandmother in February and my father-in-law 3 years ago who died 10 days after entering the hospital, and it really has been a lot.

This jumped at me. I've read that divorce after a family death is very common.

H opened the door to OW after he lost his job, which was a big deal to us all.

When you're married to someone with ADHD, it's very hard not to become a parent in some respects. My H also felt the same way with me - that I treated him like a child sometimes. Big part of the resentment. You have to keep reminding someone to do stuff, otherwise important things don't get done. H also refused to use a calendar with reminders or anything that could help him remember things. He tried ritalin, and it helped, but it also made him really mean, so he quit them.

I'm sorry your H didn't get proper follow-up from his doctor... Any medical provider should understand that they can't just send someone with ADHD out the door with medication and no follow-up!

So fun that you discovered the park and that meetup group! I can tell you sound more interested in this than anything else.