Hi Mel, Happy Mother's Day. You are a great mom and hope you had a wonderful day with your boys.
Just catching up here and want to say I'm so sorry it's come to this, but wishing you peace - or as much peace as you can have in these circumstances. I think you're right to leave OW out of the conversation with the boys. Let H have to deal with that.
I'm wishing you all the best. You've been getting great advice here. Just lending my support as well xoxoxo
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver