I really like that idea, Ralph88- take the power away from him by detaching, etc. I had never thought about it that way, but you're exactly right.
sr9e2d7, I'm sorry for what you are going through. Ralph88's got it absolutely right. Don't believe a word he says right now, no matter how good it sounds. Look at actions, and even take those with a few grains of salt. All the best.
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16