What should I be doing? (2)

[Coconut]

Ok, so turns out WW didn't go to her mothers as planned for Mother's Day... She must be fuming, I uninvited her to my Mother's Day celebration (which was awesome time), her mother ended up going south of us so they spent one hour at a pizza joint, and she didn't get a card from our S..... Not a good day for her today, I feel bad, but I have been harbor in a lot of anger towards her today... What she did is really sinking in now, I am pissed that she disrespected me and our family so much....

Anyway, since I found out they didn't go up to her Mothers, I decided to get out and go to a movie, as luck would have it, they got home as soon as I walked out.. I said hi to my son, joked with him then walked out, didn't say goodbye.. She text me and said "so if your gonna leave whenever I get home, we are going to have to tell son", I wanted to text back and say "we don't have to do anything, that is your mess to clean up", but I didn't want wonka to hit me with a 2x4 studded with nails, so I just turned off my phone..

Now I'm home and it turns out she went to the fire station (damn, she has 2x4 studded with nails too)... But I'm ok, I'm strong today, that sleep did me a lot of good... I still haven't used any of the passwords, I'm pretty sure she woulda deleted everything anyways, so it wouldn't prove anything.. My goal is to not use them unless something in her attitude changes for the worse, but even then I really don't want to.. If we do rebuild, it would mean a lot to me to know I rebuilt without spying and snooping, and what could I do anyway... FYI, I have been using "Find my IPhone", but I am ok with that.

Sandi, did I mess up real bad with what I've talked to her about, or is there still hope for me?