They are living a fantasy, and want the LBS to take on the responsibility for it. I know your pain from the emotional roller coaster as my commute has gotten longer, she wants my D's when she wants them and me to have them when she does not. Just one month before the BD she sat me down and told me how she loved me, supported me and was confident in me. A week ago she tells me she wonders why she ever married me 20 years ago. I guess the truth is there is no way to process that. I have been trying now for several months to do so and all it does is leave me feeling crazy....but wait, I'm not crazy. I say what I mean and mean what I say. She clearly does not.
Hang in there my friend. This is why we will stop believing anything they say,and just move forward and focus on making ourselves the best we can.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
