Hey Jb. I took a break from the boards for awhile. Going on 2 months of S. I was great at DBing the first month. Then, I initiated R talk. When it first started I sensed WW was a little worried that maybe I HAD started to move on. But, as soon as she sensed me pining for her and asking for timelines and such, she knew she still had me and her mindset changed to indifference or more like someone who had control over me again.
I am on day 4 of start over. Sandi's spot on I think. I got impatient and am back to square one. We need to feel like we can move on before they will even take notice.
So, don't shoot yourself in the foot like I did. Plus, it helps us keep our sanity.
Fight the good fight no matter the quality of your opponent.
Me-50 WAW-45 S13 Married 24 years Bomb 1-Jan.2008 Disc. EA She came back for 8 years Bomb 2-Jan-2016 Separation 3-12-2016