Day 28 NC (phone, text, email, social media, Sunday drop off is unavoidable)

Originally Posted By: Jb9140
Sandi, Thanks for the reply. Not initiate contact. Plain and simple, I like that. Think the dimmer switch analogy can be a little troublesome myself. Feel like I'm always trying to mind read the situation; which definitely is not letting go.

What would that picture look like, if she thought you had given up on the M? What do you see her doing?

This is a good questions, I really need to think about this. Thanks for challenging me.


Happy Mother's Day to all the ladies on this board. I hope your day is filled with joy

Wife seemed pleasat this morning when she dropped the kids off. I gave her a card from the kids because I feel it's the respectable thing to do. No card or gift from me. She told me her parents had bought a place about four hours from us and she wanted to take the kids down to visit them this Friday and Saturday bring them back Sunday. I said that would not be a problem. I wanted so bad to ask if it was just the three of them, but i didn't. We have a parent teacher this Thursday, so I'll try to look my best as usual and not ask any questions that would be pursing. I really thought this would be getting a lot easier by now. Ummm


Me-LBH, 44
Spouse-WAW, 41
Married for 9 years
S, 7 S, 5
BD - November 20th 2015