At the time a couple weeks ago I was frustrated as well. So I said I was ok with that while we figured it out. Since then I realized that I want to fight for my marriage unless there was someone else involved. I had got to the point where I snooped and find out there isn't anyone else. At that point I basically said I wanted to move back in bedroom and we need to work on out marriages. Well Friday I saw text to her friend where she said she was miserable and didn't want to me in marriage anymore. She said she doesn't think she has loved me since the last time to her friend and said she is scared to leave or stay. And that she feels shitty not giving me another chance She said she wanted to get advice from MC on Wednesday. So I've been waiting to see what happens there I haven't pushed the bedroom thing as I figured she would see more of the same behavior. One of her biggest problems is that I'm controlling. I figured saying I'm moving back to bedroom and she can move out would come across hat way So I thought it would be best to wait to till Wednesday If she says Wednesday that she is done then I will stay in guest room to end if month until son is done with school year. At that point I will do LRT to the best that I can. One of the problems was that her biggest complaint lately is that I don't do my part around the house and I'm not supportive that she want to be a full time paramedic. Well she starts paramedic school Wednesday May 18th So how would it look if I don't help take him to school, etc All the things that I wasn't doing This is where I get confused myself?
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it