A couple of weeks ago we agreed to an in home separation, so I moved in to the guest bedroom.
I'm confused... you also wanted to separate? Because that's what it sounds like when you say 'you agreed'.
Sometimes we agree to things to make ourselves feel more in control of a situation (like 'You're fired!' 'I quit!), but if you don't *want* to separate and you don't *want* to sleep in separate bedrooms, you basically allowed her kick you out and that's not going to get her respect or bring her back. You're making it easy for her. Why should you move out if she's the one who wants to separate in-house?
Same with the gifts etc. for Mother's Day. Please be conscious that you can not 'nice' anyone back.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
