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[cbtdad]

Well I went ahead and gave her the cards and the gifts that I had already bought.
I didn't make a big deal about it.
The card I got her wasn't a "I love you card" more like to thank you for being a good mom and that you've done a great job raising our son.
I watched her read it and think she took it off guard and was expecting something else. After that I just took out the shoes I bought her and said Happy Mother's Day. Not wrapped or anything. Very non chalant
I also just made some pillsbury cinnamon rolls
Normally on a day like this I would have made eggs Benedict, which is her favorite
Last night I told son to remember we need to be up to go to church.
W said y'all gonna make me feel guilty for not going
So this morning I never brought it up. I just it ready, got him ready and never asked if she wanted to go
I've notice the last couple of nights she has left the bedroom door open
Not sure why, but this was something I had brought up when I thought an A might be going on
I've really enjoyed just doing me again.
I'm cordial, but not following her around
And I feel great not bringing up R talk
Happy Mother's Day today to all you Mothers out there!