It was her choice to leave, her choice of OM, her decisions for alcohol, drugs and using her time wastefully.
Somethings are not her choice, her wonderful children struggling with her choices and then saying enough, her soft daft husband saying enough and her poor body saying enough.
Much as you love your WW the faster that rock bottom comes then the less the damage to her, you and the children.
I am glad you showed her your letter RD, there is something in black and white which stimulates the mind and makes things tangible. It says exactly what you want it to say and is precise and you have carried this as a burden for twelve months.
You can put that burden down now and move on to putting down the next one.
There is nothing that you can do for WW, there may come a time when her depression is too much for her and she will need more structured help. That is above your pay grade and hers. OM will be of little use.
Let go and let God.
There are too many choices for Join in I guess so I am clueless, I am white van woman so it's the ferry for me.
Speak soon I trust.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
