Thx Vapo. Intuition is all I've got for now. So I forgot to say happy mothers day. My Bro living with me comes in and says it. I'm trying to sleep, she comes in and says that she's going to her dad right now for mothers day because I never said it. She asked why. I said that I forgot. Was actually not intending to say it at all. Still not said it, not going to.
So I awake 1 hour later and she's still in house, not going anywhere. I'm off to my own mother's day with my family. Whilst she puts our S to sleep for his afternoon nap. When I return I said I'll take her out, as a family.
It appears that the dynamics have changed. I will always have to accept that she can go when and where she wants. But she will have to accept that her going does not even make me blink.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
