So we told them Friday after diner. I let my wife know however she felt comfortable telling them was perfectly fine. She didn't get a few words out of bed mouth and my 11 year old son started crying. Everyone one cried pretty hard. My 7 yr old daughter asked my wife if we could wait until after summer to get divorced so we could all be together for the summer. So sweet frown

She has t acted great since telling them leaving this afternoon to buy herself a new mattress for the footon she is sleeping on as if that's more important than being with the kids.

I spent yesterday and today with the as much as possible. Playing wiggle ball, sitting outside with them while they play and just being by them on the couch.

Worst experience I've had so far watching them cry! Working on staying strong on moving forward. She went out tonight to a bar to watch a band play. I've kept my distance and continue to act like she's a neighbor and not a wife. She asked my opinion on how to help her get the mattress. I wouldn't get her any suggestions on how to do it and that made her upset and she left stomping out mumbling. We will see how Mother's Day goes


M:13 years
Known her for 30 years!
Me: 40
W: 38
Kids: 17, 11, 7, 7
BD: 02/07/2016
Found EA: 3/22/2016
Told of 2 PA's: 4/8/16
Got Papers: 6/15/16