It is said that God works in mysterious ways. He may have other plans for you now due to the decisions of the WW.
I agree with you that forgiveness is for yourself more than the offender. It helps you heal and keeps the cancer of bad feelings out of the soul.
You will have the strength to do what you must, even if you have moments where you may falter. But we know it is those moments where when we push through that the strength is created.
You may be strong for your kids, but they will provide you with additional strength as you continue to improve upon the man that you are and the father that is there for them during this ordeal.
Know that you are in my prayers and that you have my support.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine