Breathe!!!
Trust me I know. I've been there before
The first time around when I found out about the A my head was spinning
I could do nothing right
You have to understand that your WW cares more about the OM right now than you and your family. It's so addictive. This is not the woman you married. You can't trey it the same way. YOU HAVE TO DETACH! Not only for having any chance at saving R, but for your own sanity.
Sandi was invaluable in my first stint here a few years ago. Hey and about 5 others really really help me through what I thought was the end for sure.
It wasn't unti the OM was out of the picture that W started coming back out of fog.
One of the toughest things I ever did was watch my W get over another man
It's why I could never do it again
But I jumped in right away and fixed a lot of things
But I didn't continue the progress I was making after we reconciled. So now here I am again
That is why it is so important for you to do this for you and not her
It won't last if it's not for you
What's the new coconut look like?
Who is the man that you think is the best you?

Trust me I know it goes against every instinct Sandi says, but you must listen
Hang in there
This is a marathon not a sprint


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it