Breathe!!! Trust me I know. I've been there before The first time around when I found out about the A my head was spinning I could do nothing right You have to understand that your WW cares more about the OM right now than you and your family. It's so addictive. This is not the woman you married. You can't trey it the same way. YOU HAVE TO DETACH! Not only for having any chance at saving R, but for your own sanity. Sandi was invaluable in my first stint here a few years ago. Hey and about 5 others really really help me through what I thought was the end for sure. It wasn't unti the OM was out of the picture that W started coming back out of fog. One of the toughest things I ever did was watch my W get over another man It's why I could never do it again But I jumped in right away and fixed a lot of things But I didn't continue the progress I was making after we reconciled. So now here I am again That is why it is so important for you to do this for you and not her It won't last if it's not for you What's the new coconut look like? Who is the man that you think is the best you?
Trust me I know it goes against every instinct Sandi says, but you must listen Hang in there This is a marathon not a sprint
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it