Blu is spot on, and I want to echo her advice. The focus you have must be on you and you alone. The goal here is to make you the better man, better potential partner and better father. That is all that you can control. If you achieve all of that then you are the person only a fool will leave. She will have to decide whether fool or not. I see on these forums to many LBS's making changes with the hope of influencing the WAS. I know that our instincts move us in that direction, but it is not realistic, and ultimately it is foolish. We can not control the decisions and actions of anyone but ourselves.
Please don't take this as harsh, but it is imperative that you act on Blu's advice and take hope in her words that down the road.....
I am sending you my support and prayers that you may have hope and strength to focus on you and becoming the person only a fool would leave.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
