The kid situation has resolved as much as it's going to, so H's stress has eased up.

He seems to have reacted to me giving him more space by coming a bit closer. He initiated physical contact outside the bed twice the week, for the first time since BD.

Still no R talk, other than some very general discussion of needing to consider the impact to the MR if he takes on a certain work project in the fall that would require lots of travel.

I still have no idea what he is thinking or feeling about the R, so I am both looking forward to and dreading our counseling appointment on Monday.

Lots of errands this weekend. Only GAL was going to see a movie with one of my sons last night.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16