I Mel, just happened to check by the forums and saw your post.
Just my 2 cents, but unless the boys ask, I wouldn't be the one to tell them about OW. My fear is that may come back to haunt you. At some point H might use that to accuse you of tainting his R with his sons. If H goes the full fledged MLC A route, he won't be able to keep it secret and that issue can be addressed with your boys when the time comes. Just my 2 cents.
Sounds like a you have a nice evening planned. It makes me want to run out and get a steak and cheesecake.
Me: 59 and holding H: :53 Me: 1 S, 1 D, both grown M: 19 T: 23 BD: 9-23-2013