This morning I'm coming to spend time with the kids. When this was planned out I had said I had a few things to do in the morning and would be over around 9:00 am. I said I would spend the day with the kids until 2:00 pm.
I was running behind and told her I wouldn't get there until a little after 9. I arrived at 9:15. She is immediately snippy with me and upset since I told her I would be there around 8:30. I apologize for being late (didn't argue about what time we had originally agreed on.) Then she says that she will be home at 6:00 pm. I laughed because I thought she was joking. She was serious. I told her that we agreed it would be 2:00 pm. She "recalls" that we didn't agree on a specific time only that I said I would spend the entire day with the kids.
I used to think I was nuts. Now it is so clear to me that it is her.