Thanks, blu.

This thread is a big part of my decision to keep my individual counselor even though H and I are starting MC on Monday.

You convinced me that's important for me to keep working on me. If piecing works, my marriage will be better for a stronger, healthier me. And if piecing doesn't work, I'll be facing my new life with more emotional resources than I had at BD.


Me: 44
H: 44
Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10
Together/Married: 22 years
H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16
H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16