This thread is a big part of my decision to keep my individual counselor even though H and I are starting MC on Monday.
You convinced me that's important for me to keep working on me. If piecing works, my marriage will be better for a stronger, healthier me. And if piecing doesn't work, I'll be facing my new life with more emotional resources than I had at BD.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16