Last night I took the kids to a play. When I returned my W was in a bad mood as usual. She wouldn't even look at me and would walk past me with a wide berth. I finally asked her if something was wrong. She went into a monologue about what a crappy person I am and then said she is filing for D next week.
I asked her what was it that finally made up her mind. Her response to that was "I just know. Why do you have to be so condescending?"
I'm not sure how that could be interpreted as a condescending question, but that is how she sees most everything - everyone is always looking down on her.
