Well my reality came back as always. It's the wife's nieces 1St bday, but she's also got a babyshower for a not so close friend, so she's not staying for the bday party. I'm here with our son. She never even came to greet her own brother,or meet the baby for the first time. This is nothing new in terms of stubbornness.
She's also set to go out with new click again tonight. Not sure how long before she finds and screws OM2. But 180ing very nicely and just validating everything she's saying.
An old friend is at the party and his wife cheated on him a few years back, got knocked up and now he's fathering that loose child. How do people do that? I don't want to imagine those 9 months and then poof, it's definitely not yours!
So the point of all of this, is Sandi says that the selfishness, stubbornness, rebellion must die. It must be replaced with willingness before they come around. I just don't see it happening.
Gotta stay the lighthouse for my son at least. Getting really close with him and disciplining him going well too.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
