Originally Posted By: smh

I don't get it! I really don't! Why does my anger seem to be the only thing that makes him take a second look at me?


I'm just taking a shot in the dark; maybe it's not the anger, maybe it's the way you interact (or don't interact) with him when you're angry. Could that be the case? When you're angry are you more distant and less responsive?

Maybe if you could reproduce your angry behavior when you're not angry it would give you some different results. I'm just guessing, but it might be worth a try.