When she wasn't home at midnight I tracked her phone and she was at the OM's house.
Yeah - I've thought about doing that as well. One thing that is strongly suggested and that I've been doing pretty good at is not snooping. And this is snooping big time. To be honest - and perhaps it's delusional - but I actually don't WANT to know right now what my WW is up to even though part of me burns to know. I got some excellent advice from a dear friend who has been through a divorce where he said to not think about the OM and what they are doing because it will drive you nuts and you'll start obsessing on that. It's hard not to but I'm working at it.
The advice here - for which I'm eternally grateful (I need to just buy everything that MWD has ever published to say "thanks") is to focus on yourself and becoming the best lfm you can be. Right now you are walking your path alone and she needs to walk her's.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells
