I had two dreams in the first few weeks after BD. In the one i literally let my WW go, she was standing in front of me, we were parting ways. She had an envelope in her hand with her new lease agreement, a budget, cash and her new car keys. I kissed her softly on the forehead and said goodbye. I then went to my new wife and was sooo happy. I felt sad that I had to say goodbye, but happy that I had found a new chance at love.
In the second I watch her get into her new boyfriends car, she rolls down the window and i say "i signed the D papers, you can sign at the court when you get there". She rolled up the window and drove out of my life.
Now i believe that dreams are our sub and unconscious thoughts coming through - what we're really feeling. If one is really randy, then most likely you will get erotic dreams if not satisfied. What we take from our dreams are what matters.
I understood that i could let her go, and could even sign D papers and then go on living my life.
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
