I am very glad for you - both that she wants to work for your R, and also that you realize that you need to take things really slowly and proceed with caution. It shows that you are valuing yourself now, and that is so important. You have come so far in the last few months.
Please do keep up posted.
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16