His family is completely oblivious. They can give two ships about him. We are going to the VA center Monday. After all is said and done, It is in THEIR hands. Seems like he failed his class and he is taking it out on me...Not my pony show...I watched the kids with no inconveniences to him...this all falls on him..I just want to get things written and restrictions noted. I am genuinely worried about my kiddos, they are my concern. If H gets pissed or thinks i am manipulating him...i do not care. He has gained 50lbs in the last few months and is always ill...it is scary