Thanks Jksd! I appreciate that from the other side and that point of view
I feel we have been in this cycle now for a while when I step back a look at it.
She doesn't give me what I want so I don't give her what she wants
We are both competitive stubborn individuals who always want to be right and win
This is my second time around this block and it's so much different
Last time I was so lost. I didn't know what I would do or how I would survive
This time around I know I have a lot to work on but I feel so much more confident with myself


M 37 W 30
S 7
Together 10 years
Married 9 years
BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day)
I moved to apartment 1/11/13
W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13
Peicing: 6/3/13
Reconciled: 7/2013
BD2: 4/20/16
still working on it