She mostly drinks socially, but rarely gets drunk. I've noticed her very attached to her phone months ago, but she no longer does this. She's constantly telling me what I am doing wrong, or things that lend to her wanting to get separated. Constant judgment and head shaking and exasperation about small thing that I do that annoy her. She's not on the computer much. On the phone constantly, but she mostly texts her friends about their drama. I guess if she was sneaky enough it could be someone else, I'm gone during the day so she might be gone for long periods without me knowing. When I get home she usually is there too. She used to call me names a lot, but I told her that needs to stop. Just recently she took my phone and checked it after I told her not to. She thinks I am seeing someone else. She tries to put me down in subtle ways in front of other people. Just enough to be able to explain it away if she had to. Neither of us have received counseling. I told her that maybe she should go to work through her issues, but she doesn't want to. I have read some inspiring books and articles about life in general and have come a long way with meditation and reflection. I have tools now that I use to manage my anger and depression.
